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How to use conversation and hypnosis to improve your life

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Conversational Hypnosis - How to Use Conversational Hypnosis to Improve Your Life

Conversational hypnosis (additionally referred to as Neuro Linquistic Programming - NLP) is a collection of methods to swiftly connect or develop rapport with someone and sway their behavior, desires, and actions to carry out just what you want by conversing with their subconscious mind. However , I'm certain what you care about most is discovering just how to make use of conversational hypnosis for you to considerably enhance your life. Within this article, I will present a few methods you can utilize conversational hypnosis and methods that actually have already been used by other people.

Simply stated, you can make use of conversational hypnosis methods to attain just about anything that needs other people to perform something. This can not be applied on inanimate things (e.g., in order to win the lottery), to cure disease, to change yourself, or anything else that does not involve other people. However, if you would like someone else to perform something... or not do something... that is exactly what these methods are all about.

To make use of these techniques, all you have to do is communicate with the person you want to take action. You can communicate silently, by talking in person, by talking over the phone, or in writing (e.g., in letters, e-mail, web pages, and even mobile phone texting). The following is a listing of things you can accomplish whenever you make use of conversational hypnosis:

    * Get your employer to offer you a raise or promotion
    * Take charge in an interview to obtain a new job
    * To inspire and also command staff members, co-workers, superiors, customers, suppliers, and partners
    * Get hold of more dates and have enjoyable, fulfilling relationships
    * Repair your marriage; re-kindle the romance
    * Get your kids to willingly perform their tasks and homework
    * Strike up conversations with anyone including complete strangers
    * Get your rent payments lowered
    * Get your tenants to pay the rent
    * Get discounts when purchasing cars, houses, or nearly anything else
    * Establish brand new business relationships
    * Get more sales opportunities and also close more sales
    * Obtain better terms when negotiating
    * Get rid of aggravation, dissatisfaction, and pain from your life

As stated earlier, in the event that you would like anything that requires someone else to do something... or not do something... that is specifically when you will want to use conversational hypnosis.
 

Hypnosis and Low Self Esteem

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During those difficult periods in our lives, we can use hypnosis to plant the seed of a thought into our subconscious mind and stop the issue from troubling us.  A lot of people use hypnosis for weight loss,  stop nail biting - even to overcome their fear of heights! 

But it can be used to change the way we look at life, boosting our self-esteem and bolstering our confidence.  There are so many self-help products available you can make use of to build your self esteem, but suppose those methods aren’t working?

Will hypnosis be successful where others have failed?  Hypnosis can put an idea into your subconscious mind to alter your fears, so that after the session, you just simply get on with life without having the anxiety interfere. 

If you need to build your self-esteem, hypnotherapy can aide you by simply building stepping-stones to a more confident life.  It’s not as easy as just listening to some self-hypnosis CDs and you have great self-esteem – you have to apply what you learn to your interaction with others and build on the new thoughts so that they become the norm.

There are some hypno-therapists who specialize in self-help issues.  But there is the option of doing it yourself, without the help from a professional hypnotist. If you decide to see a professional, they may counsel you before performing hypnosis.

Can anyone be hypnotized? Each person is different. It’s a well documented fact that  anybody who is open to it, can be hypnotized - and those who aren’t open to it, won’t be. Hypnotherapy simply places  the person in a relaxed, trance-like state and then introducing new thought patterns into the mind.

If you’re doubtful of the entire situation, you may never be able to get into a amenable state of mind .

Hypnosis is a great way to help people remove any negative thoughts and influences that hinder their  need to feel great about themselves.  We really should replace these negative thought patterns so that we’re fair to ourselves and allow our good qualities to shine through.  It can diminish the anxiety we feel when we suddenly think we’re simply not clever enough or bright enough to achieve our goals.

We all have hidden doubts and fears, but by using hypnosis, we are able to eliminate many of them and make space for positive thoughts to command our minds and lead us to a more  fearless and optimistic outlook on life. Don't worry be happy.

These Audios Can Change Your Life…

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Hello,

Have you ever heard of brainwave audios before?

Me either...or at least until recently when my friend Greg Frost introduced them to me. It is scientifically proven that these special type of audios can be used to influence your brain into specific 'states'. For example they can be used to...

1)    Increase Motivation
2)    Increase Energy
3)    Increase Focus
4)    Increase Creativity
5)    Increase Learning
6)    Increase Happiness
7)    Increase Relaxation
8)    Reduce Stress
9)    Stop Panic Attacks

And so much more.

I Was Sceptical Before Too...

http://mindmaximus.com

However, scientific research has revealed that many dynamic thought leaders, scholars and the most intelligent people share similar brainwave frequencies and display distinct peak brain states while engaged in mental tasks.

So I decided to take the first step and try some titles out. And I must admit, I've seen amazing improvement in certain aspects of my life.

I could really go on and on about the wonderful technology that my friend Greg Frost has been using to help thousands of others…but I think it’d be best if you check it out for yourself.

I’m not asking you to do anything drastic. Just spare 3 minutes and take a look at the link below to experience this incredible technology for yourself. I guarantee that you’ll be bowled over.

http://mindmaximus.com

Remember… ‘Choice’…not ‘chance’ determines destiny. It is within your own power to change your life today.

Yours Truly,
Terry

Action List to Overcome the Fear of Public Speaking

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Steps to overcome the fear of public speaking

There are several steps of tricks to use to overcome the fear of making a mistake or looking foolish when you speak to a group:

  1. Be well-prepared before speaking to a group
  2. Practice your speech. Practice, practice, practice
  3. Have a backup, in case you forget what you want to say
  4. Reduce the fear of your audience
  5. Relax yourself just before you speak

We will cover each of these points in the following posts.

/Terry

The Time I Flailed in Front of 250 Investors!

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If you have not read my professional Bio yet, stop here, take a break and go to the the About Me Page on this Blog. You will then understand more about me my background and have a bit of my professional history so you can understand this this real life story where I flailed horribly in front of a huge audience of people where I wanted them to give me millions of dollars to grow my company. Yeah. That is NO TIME to flail, crash or crater I assure you! Plus my Board of Directors were in full attendance, all 6 of them, to witness this event I will not forget the rest of my life.

September 22nd, 1991, Nashville, Tennessee. I am to speak to a group (room full) of investors to raise money to fund my company's growth and provide daily operating capital for small things like payroll, insurance, and other minor things. I would also include the term "potential investors" as well as some of the people in the audience had already invested thousands or maybe millions into my company. They were the to "check up on me". Find out how well the company was doing. Sales, the future. To test me. Feel my attitude, my resolve, my knowledge, and of course the safety of their money. Great.

So my time came and I got up on stage and began speaking for what was probably the 250th time I had given a similar talk in front of a large audience. Only this time, for some reason, I had a panic attack right about 1 minute into my speech. I am talking to the crowd and my mind is doing its best to sabotage my talk, my presentation, and now I think my life. The discussion going on in my head while I am "talking" was smattering s of "your crashing!" "Stop it"! "NOT NOW! NOT TODAY!", "You done, you wimp, goin' down!". Yep, it was that day.

Two minutes into the speech my legs were shaking so badly I thought I was going to fall! My mind is yelling at me..."Your gonna crash!". But I kept talking. Kept on delivering my prepared, practiced, rehearsed speech.

Twenty minutes later I asked the audience for questions. I knew everyone there saw me shudder and knew I tanked. Not stutter, but shudder, shake and truthfully, damn near crater, all live from Nashville! Believe it or not, people were so kind to me afterward, I actually used the crash to make new friends. Most knew I had done this type of speaking time and time again. So some people were having fun at my expense and some people were genuinely concerned.

The concerned people were the people that had money or going to put money in my company. The competition for money, or my peers were reveling and wallowing in my blood on the floor! Welcome to corporate America. If I had not practiced, rehearsed many times, memorized my speech, I would have been seen as a total schmuck! Instead I was "not on" that day and able to talk my way out of it...over time.

I did get help. I went to a psychiatrist for help. Yep, made my own appointment, went to see him and he told me some things that changed my life...forever. Never again have a flailed. Never again have I even worried about public speaking. I still do not fear it. And I can help you. Just stay tuned.

So speaking as someone who has been at the top of the corporate ladder, speaking in front of hundreds and thousands of people, and the same guy that still talks in front of small and large crowds. I know how cratering actually feels. And I know I can tell you many things that will help you defeat the fear of public speaking. In fact I am going to publish an eBook soon that will help you get rid of your fear of public speaking in 15 minutes. Yep. I can do that. 15 minutes. But that is the quick fix. Then you need a plan to relieve the fear of public speaking forever.

I sincerely want to help people overcome this fear so badly it is not funny. I also want to get my costs back, make an honest living and in doing so make sure everything I do to help people is affordable and meaningful...for a lifetime.

See you back her next week with more on this subject.

/Terry